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Success is Colorblind
Five Basic Steps to Success
Step One-The Vision
Using
the power of decision gives you the capacity to get past any excuse to
change any and every part of your life in an instant. – Anthony Robbins
The
first step to becoming successful is choosing to do so. You must want
it so much that it hurts. You must not be afraid to fail. No matter
what you choose to do, God will send you the message through three
unrelated messengers. Let say you desire to run a pizzeria. On a Friday
night, just sitting around your apartment with friends, someone in the
group will become serious and say that you should open a pizzeria.
Several weeks later, perhaps in a mall, another person you do not even
know will say something very similar to the first person, and the less
than five minutes later during a phone conversation, you will hear this
vision from another person. Go for It.
Step Two- Taking Action
The more action you take, the more progress you make. The more you do. - George Farrell
Using
the power of decision gives you the capacity to get past any excuse to
change any and every part of your life in an instant. – Anthony Robbins
Step
two is taking action. This is walking on faith, backed by facts. Lets
say you start to take action by researching the pizzeria business. You
research Papa John and Dominoes franchises along with starting from
scratch. As you move forward, many people, seemingly out of nowhere,
will start to help you. Some only for a day, some for months. A leasing
agent will offer six months with no rental payments; your grandmother
will secretly give you ten thousand dollars. Many things will fall into
place. Miracles are happening. Do not forget to tithe.
Step Three-Achieving
Always do more than is required of you. – George Patton
Opening day. You did it with help of a lot of others.
And
you did it without a bank loan. Now comes the hard part. Working
eighteen-hour days without a day off. No more weekends. During this
period, you may loose some friends as you become a focused more serious
person. Make sure that you really love what you are doing because this
is the only fun you will have for the next two years. If you are
blessed, you may make a profit in your first year. Lets hope so because
there is no turning back. Now the bankers show up because you are making
daily consistent deposits. Ask them for an unsecured line of credit. If
they say no, tell them to come back when they will.
Prior
to any big achievement, everything will go wrong. Your car will
breakdown, your wife will loose her mind, your best friend will get
arrested for driving under the influence, and your children will end up
in the emergency room. Understand, all of these distractions are test to
see if you can stay focused and finish. Finish the task and all of the
distractions will solve themselves.
Step Four- Self Destruction
Step Four- Self Destruction
TIGER WOODS; PRESIDENT BILL CLINTON; JESSE JACKSON
There are three types of Self destruction that destroys lives, careers and families.
SEX, DRUGS, including alcohol or BOTH
Your
success has changed you. You have different friends. You walk taller
and are more decisive in your speech and mannerisms. Trust me, even if
you are four hundred pounds with a case of bad acne, women, mainly low
class tramps, will notice. Everyone is in your pockets. This is the most
dangerous period for you. No one is exempt. Bill Clinton, Jesse
Jackson, Marion Barry, Pastor Ted Haggard and even Martin Luther King,
Jr. have failed here. You must recognize when you are becoming
self-destructive and avoid the behavior or handle it. That’s why there
are cities like Las Vegas. Do your dirt alone.
Dr. Henry Lyons is a classic case of self-destructive behavior. Remember, a Black man is always a suspect, even a powerful preacher.
Reverend Doctor Henry J Lyons
In
September of 1994, The Reverend Doctor Henry J. Lyons became the
President of the National Baptist Convention. A position he coveted his
whole life. But who knew that he was entering the self–destructive phase
of success. Dr. Lyons started down this slippery slope by smoking weed.
Add to that the fact that he was committing adultery, and you have a
classic case of self–destructive behavior.
On
July 7, 1997, Deborah Lyons, Henry’s wife, set fire to a mansion in
which Dr. Lyons was housing his girlfriend. It is never a good idea to
buy your girlfriend a bigger house than your wife. But Rev. Lyons, prior
to becoming president of the National
Baptist
Convention, through a group of non-profits and the church he headed,
had tied up development and limited progress in his south St. Petersburg, Florida
neighborhood for years. In August of 1997, United States Attorney
Charles Wilson launches a federal investigation. In February of 1999,
the Reverend Doctor Henry Lyons is found guilty of grand theft and
racketeering and sentenced to over five years in federal prison.
I thought this was one of the worst self destructive acts ever until Steve McNair. Alcohol and sex put this former NFL athlete on a self destructive path cost him his life and disgraced his family.
According to Wikipedia "On July 4, 2009, McNair was found dead of multiple gunshot wounds, along with the body of a young woman named Sahel "Jenni" Kazemi, in a condominium rented by McNair, at 105 Lea Avenue in downtown Nashville.McNair had been shot twice in the body and twice in the head, with only one of the shots coming from closer than three feet. Kazemi had a single gunshot wound to the head, which was proved to have been fired from a gun that was held to her temple. McNair was believed to have been asleep on the couch when the shooting occurred. The bodies were discovered by McNair's friends Wayne Neely and Robert Gaddy, who called 911. The Nashvile Police Department declared McNair's death a murder-suicide, with Kazemi as the perpetratorand McNair as the victim. The 9-mm gun used was found under Kazemi's body and later tests revealed "trace evidence of (gunpowder) residue on her left hand."Kazemi had a worsening financial situation and also suspected that McNair was in another extramarital relationship"
According to Wikipedia "On July 4, 2009, McNair was found dead of multiple gunshot wounds, along with the body of a young woman named Sahel "Jenni" Kazemi, in a condominium rented by McNair, at 105 Lea Avenue in downtown Nashville.McNair had been shot twice in the body and twice in the head, with only one of the shots coming from closer than three feet. Kazemi had a single gunshot wound to the head, which was proved to have been fired from a gun that was held to her temple. McNair was believed to have been asleep on the couch when the shooting occurred. The bodies were discovered by McNair's friends Wayne Neely and Robert Gaddy, who called 911. The Nashvile Police Department declared McNair's death a murder-suicide, with Kazemi as the perpetratorand McNair as the victim. The 9-mm gun used was found under Kazemi's body and later tests revealed "trace evidence of (gunpowder) residue on her left hand."Kazemi had a worsening financial situation and also suspected that McNair was in another extramarital relationship"
Step Five- Correction
Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory. – Arthur Ashe
Correcting
or avoiding self-destructive behavior is the hardest thing you will
ever do. Colin Powell may have been the only man known to avoid this.
Pray a lot. I am at peace when I am boating. For me, I take my boat out
right before dusk, cut the motor and drift. This is when I pray for
strength.
If
you can survive a self–destructive period without destroying your
marriage, loosing tons of money, or becoming a criminal suspect, you can
move on to your next conquest.
Step one to avoiding self destructive behavior is avoiding Drugs and alcohol.
Step two is controlling sexual urges, the second is much harder than the first.
This is an excerpt from upcoming book Success is Colorblind by George Farrell
Talent hits a target no one else can hit.
Genius hits a target no one else can see.
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Talent hits a target no one else can hit.
Genius hits a target no one else can see.
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